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Experienced Virginia Divorce Lawyers
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Key Takeaways
- Comprehensive Divorce Representation: Parks Zeigler guides clients through both contested and uncontested divorce proceedings with a focus on protecting their legal rights and best interests.
- Equitable Distribution Support: The firm assists in dividing marital assets and debts fairly under Virginia law, including complex property and financial holdings.
- Child Custody & Support: Their attorneys help clients establish or modify child custody, visitation, and support arrangements that serve the best interests of the children.
- Spousal Support Advocacy: They provide skilled negotiation and litigation in matters involving alimony, whether seeking or contesting spousal support.
- Separation Agreements: Parks Zeigler drafts and reviews legally binding separation agreements that address key issues like property division, custody, and support.
- Experienced and Personalized Guidance: Clients receive tailored legal strategies and compassionate support throughout the emotionally challenging divorce process.
Going through a divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re facing decisions about children, property, and your future. The emotional, financial, and legal challenges can make it difficult to know where to begin.
You do not have to go through this alone. At Parks Zeigler, PLLC, our law firm can guide those facing a divorce in Virginia with clear legal advice and dedicated representation to help you move forward confidently.
Divorce and Separation in Virginia
Virginia recognizes two forms of divorce.
What is Divorce from Bed and Board?
“Divorce from bed and board” is a limited divorce available only on grounds such as cruelty or desertion. It does not fully dissolve the marriage, so both spouses remain legally married and cannot remarry. Virginia does not recognize a formal separate legal status called “legal separation” apart from this limited court remedy.
What is Divorce from the Bond of Matrimony?
A “divorce from the bond of matrimony,” or absolute divorce, completely ends the marriage and allows either party to remarry.
Even if both spouses agree to divorce, they must have legally sufficient grounds for the court to grant it under Virginia’s divorce laws.
What Are the Differences Between Separation and Divorce in Virginia?
Separation allows the marriage to continue while both parties live separately. It can preserve certain benefits, such as health insurance coverage or potential tax advantages.
Absolute divorce ends all legal ties between spouses, allowing either party to remarry. It also severs all marital benefits between the parties, including those listed above.
Can I Get a Divorce in Virginia?
You may file for divorce in Virginia if either you or your spouse has resided in and been a domiciliary of (permanent intent to reside) Virginia for at least six months before filing.
The court will not grant a divorce without legal grounds. Virginia recognizes five grounds for divorce, each with specific requirements and waiting periods.
Do I Need a Separation Agreement in Virginia?
For most divorces, you are not required to have a separation agreement in Virginia; however, it can make the divorce process smoother. A separation agreement is a written contract that allows both parties to agree on important issues in advance, such as:
- Property division
- Spousal support
- Child custody
- Living arrangements
While not strictly required for all uncontested divorces, it is a required element for the six-month no-fault divorce option and strongly recommended in any uncontested case to help avoid disputes in court.
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What Are the Grounds for Divorce in Virginia?

In Virginia, you must have legal grounds for divorce. The five grounds recognized by Virginia law are:
- Adultery, sodomy, or buggery committed outside the marriage: Requires clear and convincing evidence. No waiting period applies.
- Conviction of a felony: If one spouse is convicted and sentenced to more than one year in prison, resulting in confinement after the conviction, and the couple did not live together after learning of the confinement.
- Desertion or cruelty: Requires a one-year waiting period after the date of the act of desertion or cruelty.
- One-year separation: Required if the couple has minor children or if they have no minor children but have not signed a written settlement agreement. This period requires continuous separation without cohabitation or interruption.
- Six-month separation: Available only if the couple has no minor children and they have signed a written separation agreement. Otherwise, a full one-year separation is required for a no-fault divorce.
Virginia allows both fault-based and no-fault divorces. A no-fault divorce is based on the parties living separate and apart without interruption for either one-year or six-months, depending on whether the couple has minor children and a separation agreement. Fault-based divorces are based on misconduct, such as adultery, cruelty, desertion, or a felony, and can affect spousal support, property division, and child custody decisions.
Fault or No-Fault Divorce
In Virginia, divorces may proceed on either fault-based or no-fault grounds. A fault-based divorce is based on misconduct by one spouse, such as adultery, cruelty, desertion, or conviction of a felony. Some fault-based grounds, such as adultery or felony conviction with a sentence over one year, do not require a separation period before filing. Other fault-based grounds, including cruelty or desertion, require the spouses to live apart for one year after the act before the court can grant a divorce.
A no-fault divorce requires separation with the intent to end the marriage. Couples with minor children must maintain continuous separation for at least one year. Couples without minor children who have a written separation agreement may file after six months of continuous separation. The chosen grounds determine the required waiting period before filing.
Contested vs. Uncontested Divorce
In Virginia, divorces are categorized as either contested or uncontested. An uncontested divorce occurs when both parties agree on all issues, including property division, spousal support, and child custody. Typically, in an uncontested divorce, the parties execute a written separation agreement and submit the necessary paperwork to the court without requiring a formal hearing.
A contested divorce arises when the parties cannot agree on one or more issues and require the court to make those determinations. Many contested cases eventually resolve through negotiation or mediation, allowing the parties to avoid trial by reaching an agreement outside of court.
How Can Our Virginia Divorce & Separation Attorneys Help?
Divorce is a significant life event with long-term consequences. Having an experienced attorney can help you navigate the legal process and protect your interests. At Parks Zeigler, PLLC, we offer comprehensive legal support throughout the divorce and separation process, including legal representation in all court proceedings, negotiation of settlement terms, and guidance on complex financial and custody issues.
Our partners have years of experience handling divorce cases in Virginia family law. We understand the court’s expectations, the strategies necessary to protect your interests, and the opportunities available to help you move forward with confidence.
Why Choose Parks Zeigler, PLLC
At Parks Zeigler, PLLC, we are a client-focused firm that has served Virginia residents since 2012. Our managing attorneys, Kellam T. Parks and Brandon H. Zeigler, work closely with clients to provide reliable, effective legal representation in family law cases and other practice areas. We are committed to delivering thorough, compassionate guidance tailored to our clients’ needs every step of the way.
Testimonials
“If you’re looking for a divorce lawyer who is not only knowledgeable but also easy to talk to, then Kellam Parks from Parks Ziegler, PLLC is your guy. From the moment I met him, Kellam created a warm and welcoming atmosphere that made discussing my concerns feel natural and comfortable. He went above and beyond to help me see beyond my emotions, providing invaluable guidance throughout the process. Thanks to Kellam’s expertise and support, I was able to walk away from my marriage with a settlement that exceeded my expectations. I truly believe I wouldn’t have achieved such a favorable outcome on my own. Kellam Parks and his team at Parks Ziegler, PLLC are truly exceptional, and I wholeheartedly recommend their services to anyone facing a divorce.” — Jess D.
Process for Filing for Divorce in Virginia
The process for filing for divorce in Virginia generally includes the following steps:
- One spouse files a Complaint for Divorce in the appropriate circuit court. This document states the grounds for divorce and may include requests regarding child custody, support, and property division.
- The other spouse is formally served with divorce papers and typically has 21 days to respond.
- A discovery phase follows, during which both parties exchange information through written questions, document requests, and depositions.
- If the parties cannot reach an agreement, the case proceeds to trial, where a judge will decide any unresolved issues.
Once all family law matters are settled and approved by the court, a final decree of divorce is entered.
What Differences Are There for Military and Veteran Divorces?
Military divorces involve additional legal considerations compared to civilian divorces. These include rules governing when and where you can file, calculation and award of spousal and child support, division of military pensions and retirement benefits under the Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA), and eligibility for long-term healthcare benefits under the 20/20/20 or 20/20/15 rules. Given these complexities, it is advisable to work with an attorney familiar with military divorce issues to protect your interests.
What Should I Bring to My First Meeting With a Virginia Divorce Lawyer?

Being well-prepared for your initial consultation can help streamline the divorce process and allow our attorneys to provide more accurate guidance. You should consider bringing the following documents:
- Financial records detailing assets and debts
- Marriage certificate
- Prenuptial or post-nuptial agreements
- Any existing court orders related to support, custody, or protective orders
What Are the Requirements for Filing for Divorce in Virginia?
You may file for divorce if at least one spouse has lived in the Commonwealth of Virginia for six continuous months immediately before filing. For military members, being stationed in Virginia for six continuous months prior to filing qualifies as meeting the residency requirement, even without intent to remain in the Commonwealth. If the other spouse has no significant connection to Virginia, the court may have limited authority to address issues such as support or property division.
A written property settlement agreement is typically required to finalize an uncontested divorce. A separation agreement is necessary to qualify for the six-month no-fault divorce option, and is recommended in any uncontested case to help avoid disputes in court. For couples with minor children, Virginia law requires a one-year separation period before filing, even if the parties have a separation agreement.
How Much Does It Cost to File for Divorce in Virginia?
Filing fees for divorce in Virginia typically range from approximately $100 to $150, depending on the city or county and any recent updates to clerk fees. In addition to these court costs, parties should also anticipate legal services and attorney fees, which can vary significantly based on the complexity of the case and the level of representation required.
Documentation and Court Filings Fees
Depending on the jurisdiction and specific circumstances, additional court costs may apply. These can include:
- Divorce decree fees
- Filing application fees
- Clerk of court fees
Who Pays for Divorce in Virginia?
Generally, each party is responsible for their own legal expenses during the divorce process. However, the court has discretion to order one party to pay some or all of the other party’s attorney fees based on various equitable factors, including misconduct, financial need, or significant income disparities.
What Am I Entitled to in a Virginia Divorce?
In a Virginia divorce, you may be entitled to a share of the marital property, which includes assets acquired during the marriage. You may also be eligible for spousal support, depending on the financial circumstances of you and your spouse. Additionally, the court will determine appropriate custody arrangements and child support, guided by the children’s best interests.
Property Division After a Divorce in Virginia

Virginia courts follow the principle of equitable distribution when dividing marital property and debts. Under Virginia law, property is categorized as either marital or separate. Separate property includes assets acquired before the marriage, gifts, and inheritances. Marital property consists of assets and debts accumulated during the marriage. Some property may also be categorized as commingled property, which is partially marital property and partially separate property.
Equitable distribution does not mean an equal division of the marital property. Instead, the court considers various factors, including each spouse’s financial needs, earning capacity, and ability to maintain a comparable standard of living, to achieve a fair distribution.
How Is Retirement Pay Divided in a Virginia Divorce?
Retirement accounts and pensions are often considered marital property if they were accumulated during the marriage. Virginia courts may use a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to divide these benefits. A QDRO directs the retirement plan administrator to pay a designated portion of the benefits to the non-employee spouse as an alternate payee.
Understanding Spousal Support/Alimony After Divorce in Virginia
Courts in Virginia consider multiple factors when determining whether to award spousal support. These factors include the financial needs of each party, the length of the marriage, the reasons for the divorce, each party’s earning capacity, and any child support obligations.
Spousal support may be awarded on an ongoing basis or for a defined period. In many cases, support is temporary and ends after certain conditions are met or a specified duration has passed.
Child Custody in Virginia
Child custody has two components in Virginia: physical and legal.
Physical Custody
Physical custody refers to where the child primarily resides. It may be awarded solely to one parent or shared as joint physical custody. Courts often encourage arrangements that allow both parents to remain involved in the child’s life.
Legal Custody
Legal custody involves the authority to make important decisions about the child’s upbringing, including matters related to the child’s education, healthcare, and religious instruction. Legal custody may also be awarded solely to one parent or shared jointly.
When determining custody arrangements, Virginia courts focus on the best interests of the child, considering factors such as each parent’s ability to provide a stable environment and foster a positive relationship with the other parent.
Take the First Step Toward Resolution. Let Our Virginia Divorce Attorneys Guide You.
When facing a decision as important as divorce, obtaining knowledgeable legal guidance is essential. By working with Parks Zeigler, PLLC, you gain access to experienced Virginia family lawyers who will help you make informed choices for your future.
We serve clients throughout Virginia, including Northern Virginia (Arlington, Fairfax), as well as Alexandria, Richmond, Virginia Beach, Chesapeake, Norfolk, Fredericksburg, and surrounding areas. To schedule a consultation with one of our family law attorneys, please call our law office at 888-773-4311 or fill out our contact form.
Written By Brandon H. Zeigler
Brandon is an experienced attorney with a strong background in family law, litigation, and small business representation. During his lengthy career, he has worked in several firms handling a wide variety of types of cases. In 2015, Brandon joined Kellam to form Parks Zeigler, PLLC, wanting to integrate innovative use of technology to enhance efficiency and client service. With a focus on problem-solving, he enjoys helping individuals and small businesses navigate complex legal challenges with creative and effective solutions.
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