Addressing Frequently Asked Legal Questions And Concerns

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  • If I have primary physical joint custody, would I have a good chance of getting custody to move out of state? Secondary parent is behind on child support payments and is inconsistent with holding a job.

    moving out of statePrimary physical custody does not always guarantee that parent will be able to relocate out of the state. The Court will consider lack of financial support but more importantly:

    1. whether the relocation will be detrimental to the relationship with the parent being left and

    2. whether there is an independent benefit to the child with the relocation.  

    Lack of financial assistance, lack of consistent contact, and the circumstances surrounding the relocation will be evaluated.

     

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  • Is there anything I can legally do to protect my money, and if not, at least start the divorce process while deployed?

    Protecting your money during divorce while deployedQuestion: Me and my wife are currently going through a divorce after I left for deployment. We haven't done any paperwork yet because of the fact that I'm overseas. She has been spending every dime of every paycheck I get as soon as I earn it. Is there anything I can legally do to protect my money and if not at least start the divorce process while deployed?

    You should be able to set up a new allotment so that she only receives an amount necessary to pay marital expenses and the remainder can go into an account of your choosing.  You can start the divorce process while deployed, but it will be difficult to do since your appearance could be necessary at court before you return from deployment.  You can start the process of preparing a proposed Separation Agreement which settles the division of assets, debts, custody, visitation, and support while deployed.

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  • How can I obtain court documents for a case that has been closed for the past seven years if I have no living contact for case information?

    Obtaining court documents in VirginiaQuestion: "Part of the application process I'm in the process of filling out requires the disclosure of past criminal incidents. I would just call my old attorney, but they passed away a couple of years after representing me in this case. How can I obtain the court documents/case details for a case that has been closed for the past seven years considering I have no living contact for case information?"

    Answer: General District Court and Circuit Court Cases are public files. Unless the court has destroyed the file within its guidelines, you can contact the court and get a copy of the entire case file for a fee plus the cost of copies. If it’s a Juvenile & Domestic Relations Court case, the file is not public, but you should still be able to obtain a copy of the case if you are the subject of the case. If the court does not have a copy of the case file, you should find out what the court’s destruction policy is, then answer the application with as many details as you remember, and cite the court’s destruction policy and your efforts to obtain the copies. You may also wish to contact your attorney’s law firm to see if they still have your file. If she was a solo practitioner, you can contact the Virginia State Bar to determine if any attorneys are maintaining her files. The ethical rules only require attorneys to maintain files for 5 years, so if it’s more than 5 years old, this is less likely to work.

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  • Is there any action I can take if my child’s grandmother opens up a credit card in my daughter’s name without permission?

    Credit card accounts and family. Question: "Is there any action I can take if my child’s grandmother opens up a credit card in my daughter’s name without permission? My mother-in-law has had a history of opening up credit cards in her own son’s names without their permission. She keeps asking for my daughter’s social security number for a universal life account or something that she wants to open for her but because of the past, I will not be giving it out. I am paranoid my partner might give in and I want to at least have some head knowledge on what I can do if a scenario like that takes place."

    I am assuming that your daughter is a minor for my response. While you should always be careful with sharing your children’s social security number (or yours, for that matter), I agree it is especially true in your situation. Should your mother-in-law somehow obtain it and utilize it to fraudulently open credit using your daughter’s information, that is a crime. It is identity theft and you can go to the proper authorities. Apart from the criminal action, you can also dispute any accounts that are in your daughter’s name. You should monitor her (and any other children’s) credit, as there shouldn’t be any notations. If something appears you should dispute it with the credit agencies and place either a fraud alert or consider freezing the account(s). 

    More details on how to dispute are here as well as the difference of a fraud alert and a credit freeze.

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  • Can I be charged for kidnapping if I move out of state with my children away from my husband?

    Mother and ChildQuestion: “My husband abandoned our family. We've been separated for almost a year and we’re still legally married. Our children live with me and I take care of them with no help from their father, but they do see him regularly. I would like to move back home (out of Virginia) closer to my family but my husband doesn’t want me to. He doesn't pay child support, and there is no custody order in place. Can I leave without facing kidnapping charges?"

    The simple answer is yes, you can move out of state. However, if you move and he files for custody with the courts, the court could make you move back or give him custody of the children. If you move and remain for at least six months, that state will then have jurisdiction over the children and he would have to file for custody and/or visitation in that state.

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  • Can I legally require my soon-to-be ex-spouse to only communicate with me via text messages?

    Texting and child custody arrangements.Question: "I have asked my wife to only contact me via text since we finalized our divorce. She refuses. I'd like to document all of our conversations for posterity's sake and I fully intend to request a modification to the custody agreement. My questions are: 1) Legally speaking, am I in the wrong with any of this? 2) What's my best course of action to get a court order in place to state that our communication can only be via text? 3) If I pursue a text-only court order, would that affect my ability to Facetime with my son?"

    If there is not a current order which prohibits telephonic communication, then you cannot force her to only communicate via text. While we understand the need to document your communication, if your only reason for seeking a modification is to get an order requiring that all communication occur via text, then you may not be successful. In Virginia, you must show a material change in circumstances that justifies a modification of a current custody/visitation court order. Also, so long as the text-only order relates to communication between the parents, it should not affect your ability to Face-Time with your son, however, I would ensure that was in a court order as well.

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  • Can my ex-spouse force me to pay retroactive child support payments?

    Retroactive Child SupportQuestion: "I have heard that if I have my son less than 40% of the time I may have to pay child support. When we were together she agreed to pay for nearly everything for our son considering my financial situation. In her custody agreement, she is wanting me to pay for past expenses that she willingly paid. Is there any merit to this?"

    In Virginia, the court only has the authority to modify child support once a Motion to Amend has been filed and the opposing party has received proper notice of the Motion to Amend. If there is not a current child support order and it is an initial determination of child support, then the court has the authority to order child support commencing from the date the Petition for Child Support is filed. Thus, she cannot seek reimbursement for expenses and/or child support for periods of time prior to her filing a Petition or Motion with the court.

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  • I'm worried my mother isn't preparing for the transfer of her assets properly.

    Mother and daughter, end of life decisions. Question: "My mother is planning to leave $20,000 in savings to my sister and me, but I'm not sure about the way she is going about it. She plans to leave $10,000 for each of us, but she wants us to just transfer all of her funds from her bank account to our own, and that be that."

    Your mother can speak with her bank and see if there is a payable on death (POD) option on her savings account. If she fills out a payable on death form, then at her death, the funds will go to the person(s) listed on that form. As these funds are in her name, they could possibly be subject to creditor's claims at her death regardless of the payable on death designation.

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  • At what point does your business credit activity stop affecting your personal credit?

    Credit applications and your business credit scoreQuestion: "I got my first business credit card earlier this year, which shows up as an inquiry on my personal credit record & has been affecting my personal credit score, which is totally understandable since I had zero business credit history. But at what point does your business credit activity stop affecting your personal credit? If I were to apply for a 2nd business card now, will it still show up as an inquiry on my personal? I'd greatly appreciate any insight, thank you!"

    Whether a business credit card affects your personal credit depends on if the credit card issuer reports to consumer credit bureaus or business credit bureaus. Unfortunately, there is no uniform behavior; different companies do different things. One standard behavior; however, is a hard credit inquiry when you apply. This will cause a small temporary drop in your personal credit score and will remain on the report for two years as a pull. If you are concerned, you should inquire to the issuer of the business credit card as to their policy before applying.

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  • Will I be responsible for my parents' debt after they die?

    Parental Debt Question: "I am an only child with two parents who don’t have a lot of money and have a fair amount of debt. They don’t have any assets or an estate. Neither is in great health. I am very worried that their debt and hospital bills will transfer to me when they die."

    Children are not generally responsible for the debts and other obligations of their parents when their parents die. A child is liable only if he or she is a joint debtor, co-signs, or otherwise agrees to pay the creditor. Virginia law sets out the priority for debts to be paid by an estate. Generally, if there is not enough to pay creditors, the administrator of the estate can send each creditor a letter stating that debts exceed the assets and creditors will be paid in accordance with the priority set under Virginia law. Estate administration costs are paid first, then creditors in the order established by statute until funds run out.

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